November 26, 2008

Recently, the speech therapist gave Rand a card, published by The American Stroke Association, to keep with him in case he gets lost, is alone, needs help and can’t communicate. I haven’t figured out the logistics yet – how and where to keep it handy and how he can remember that he has this aid, when and where to use it. It does contain some useful information and tips for all of us, so I thought I would pass them along to you. Even though you may not see Rand, these suggestions could be helpful with anyone who has had a stroke.

I have APHASIA (uh fay’zhuh), which makes it hard to
communicate. I have difficulty communicating
because I have had a stroke. Please speak slowly and clearly.

I have trouble finding my words
I have trouble making sentences
I have trouble understanding
I can only read a little bit
I can only write a little bit
I have trouble with numbers
I cannot use the phone

How You Can Help

Speak directly to me
Use short sentences
Give me time to answer
Ask short yes/no questions
Write key words or let me write
Use simple drawings
Show me maps or pictures
Do not shout. I am not deaf.

All of the above information applies to Rand. Even though he can play cards, he has trouble with numbers. Even though his comprehension is better, he is still easily confused. Even though he is more aware of details around him and his problem solving skills are improving, he has no strategies for getting himself out of moderate to difficult situations.

Keep Rand close in your hearts.

Love,
Connie